Live Your Own Life

It really doesn’t matter how or where or when you’re born; or how, or where or when you die. All that counts is what you do with the time in between the moment you gasp your first breath and the moment you release your last. Once we get through childhood, most of us go through…

Our Relationship with Our Emotions- Empowerment versus Controlling

I was following a discussion thread the other day.  I forget now what the original topic was about- that happens when discussion threads take on a life and energy of their own.  But there was one point, one response in this exchange that caught my attention, and I felt drawn to elaborate on it.  Someone…

Why I Need to Rebel

I was the eldest daughter of a farmer’s daughter who was determined that I would have all of the opportunities that she never had. My childhood was filled with extra classes most days of the week. Mum was determined that I wouldn’t grow up with an accent so I had elocution lessons. I was always…

Get Back Behind that Sink and Nurture Your Children!

I have just listened to the BBC 5 Live radio phone-in regarding the issue around taking your children into work. This has been raised after Scottish MP Kirsty Blackman took her children to a Westminster committee hearing, apparently unable to find appropriate childcare at short notice during the Scottish summer holidays, which start earlier than…

Applaud the Bad Times!

Imagine how mind-numbingly boring it would be if life was perfect and you never felt stressed or sick or angry or cold or wet or miserable. Imagine if all day, every day, everybody was smiling and happy and content and serene. On the one hand, we all think we want life to be perfect and…

Step Into Your Power

Do you feel the tiredness and weight of increasing age and equate that with a loss of ability and capacity? The skills and experiences that you have acquired throughout your life are not lost through aging! They are not lost, instead, they lie dormant while you acquire wisdom. Now is the time to wake up…