Positive Thinking – is it Always a Good Thing? Part 4 of 4

In my work I pay close attention to people’s beliefs and their self-talk.  Often the beliefs were created around a trauma they experienced at some point in their life.  This is a natural survival instinct, where the mind tries to make sense of what happened and to help us to avoid similar painful situations in…

Positive Thinking – is it Always a Good Thing? Part 3 of 4

Last week I looked at the benefits of being ‘selfish’, but how does this relate back to what I said at the beginning about Positive Thinking? To me it’s about being open and honest with ourselves and – where it’s appropriate – with those around us.  If you’re having a challenging day, admit it!  Don’t…

Positive Thinking – is it Always a Good Thing? Part 2 of 4

In last week’s post I started looking at why positive thinking alone might not be enough. Instead, I think the answer lies in becoming more aware of: our thoughts and self-talk the impact of what we listen to / read / watch the influence of those we spend our time with the effect that all…

Finding Yourself – Is Unlike Other Journeys

“Unlike many other journeys, when it comes to finding self and matters of the heart you’ll swiftly find yourself lost if you follow someone else’s path.” – Rasheed Ogunlaru, Coach – Speaker – Author   Finding yourself is unlike other journeys. Other journeys are external pursuits. You go here and you go there. The journey of…

Positive Thinking – is it Always a Good Thing? Part 1 of 4

Our lives seem to be full of contradictions!  On the one hand we’re bombarded by news that is often negative and full of doom and gloom, while on the other we’re encouraged to be positive, smile and avoid negative thoughts for the sake of our health. So what’s the answer?! Well, first of all let’s…

Find Your ‘Ness’

I am blessed to be surrounded by birdsong almost all the time. It wakes me up in the morning, keeps me company throughout the day and reminds me it’s time to stop in the evening! Of course, the birds are just doing what comes naturally and have no idea that they play such an important…

Guidance

What do you do when life presents you with an opportunity that seems too good to be true? Do you run away as fast as you can, convinced it must be some kind of scam? Or, do you seize it with both hands and run with it to where ever it may take you? I…

Connect

Lately I’ve been becoming more and more aware of the intricate way we’re all connected to each other. The ‘6 degrees of separation’ theory says that, through the network of the people we know and the people they know etc, none of us is more than 6 steps away from knowing everybody else. But, when…

Silence

I wonder if silence actually exists? Even as I sit here in silence I can hear the hum of the computer, my fingers on the keyboard, the breeze singing through my wind chime, a dog somewhere in the distance… If I was under the sea, I would hear the sound of my own breathing. In…

Recipe for Change

Did you ever have one of those moments of sudden insight? I had one today, sitting in a bookshop, sipping coffee. (Yes, a bookshop that serves coffee – what could be better?) A woman at the next table was on the phone, giving the person on the other end of the line directions to her…