This is Us

Are you one of the 10 million people watching, and loving, this new TV show? I wake up with the theme, message and/or metaphor in my head and heart when it’s time to blog. Today it was This Is Us. Have you noticed the sheer number of topics covered each week that focus on acceptance?…

Answer to a Prayer Before Saying Goodbye

Have you ever written a letter to your father, or someone, with no intention of sharing it? I did, many moons ago, on Father’s Day, as I lived in my parent’s house in New Jersey, healing from physical and emotional pain.   “It’s strange celebrating Father’s Day with this silence between us,” I wrote. “Your silence, your temper,…

Life As We Know It

Pretend it’s your last day on Earth in life as we know it. Some of you will shout, “Thank God!” Some of you may cry… But here’s what I want you to do, right now. Make your mental list of what you would do. Pretend it really is your last day on Earth as we…

Being Who We Are…

I have just checked out on the map exactly where I am! Maricarmen asked me this question today in my Spanish lesson… ‘I’m not totally sure..’ I replied laughing… ‘In Turkey, Manavgat; beside a really long beach…’ I have now found out that we are on the South Coast and the beach goes on and…

What is the Difference Between a Soul Mate and a Twin Flame?

People tend to use the term “soul mate” loosely, generalizing its meaning to describe someone who they feel connected to or deeply in love with. All of those can describe a soul mate relationship; however, not everyone we have these feelings for is a soul mate. By the same regard, we do not fall in…

Hand Outstretched to God: Time Carves us into Magic

I was angry at my father inside my dream of almost 20 years ago. In that nighttime journey, I had discovered sculptures of Italy’s Renaissance artist Michelangelo below a pile of ice in a freezer. I was angry at my father for directing conversations toward rational conclusions that had nothing to do with the emotions…

Is St Valentine’s Day Triggering Self-Love or Self-Hate?

We are in February, the month of love ‘par excellence’ and of course a very big commercial opportunity. I remember when I was a teenager and then later on a young woman how I felt when St Valentine’s would approach. All my uncertainty, self-doubt and body concerns would come up, either I had a boyfriend…