As this last post of Stress Awareness Month, I thought I’d look at the wisdom that we hold within ourselves.
Our bodies know how to be well, it’s just that often we have disconnected from that wisdom. If we can find a way to reconnect and re-member that wisdom (as Neale Donald Walsch might say) then we can rediscover our balance and wellbeing.
Every cell of our being holds a blueprint of how it is designed to function and what it needs in order to operate most effectively. When we can tune in to this and be fully open to allowing it, then the body will naturally find its way back to this pattern.
However, due to stress and the traumas that we experience in our lives (both ‘Big T’ and ‘little t’ traumas – and remember that these are very subjective and don’t always ‘make sense’ to our analytical minds) we can find ourselves not fully able to trust this process and allow our bodies to find the balance they were designed for.
We might have learnt patterns of behaviour which, originally, were put in place to help us feel safe, but over time they have become stifling and restrictive, actually stopping us from growing and becoming the happy, healthy, creative being we were designed to be.
The rules and expectations of our society can also seem to place restrictions and demands on us, limiting our choices or shaping us into a particular role, which might not actually be where our Spirit would choose to be.
So what can you do? How can you get back to the wellbeing and ‘flow’ that you were made for?
I believe that we can do this through reconnecting to Nature – both the Nature all around us, and to our own true Nature, in all its forms and colours.
A wonderful and wise woman once shared a song with me that had a great impact on how I saw myself and the life I was living. Sadly, it was many years ago and I long ago lost the recording and don’t have a copy of the exact lyrics, but it was about how looking at the sunset reminds us that our life is supposed to contain all the colours. We weren’t designed for a bland, monochrome existence, but for one that is full of bright, vivid colour. This encompasses all the emotions, both the ‘safe’ and ‘acceptable’ ones, and also the ‘scary’ and ‘ugly’ ones. We need to embrace them all and learn how to be a good steward of them, so that they don’t end up controlling us on some subconscious level.
I also think that it is very important to pay attention to the messages that we give ourselves, both through our words, and our body language.
One simple example, in regards to vocabulary is this:
And for body language, consider this question:
Often, we think that our body language comes from our feelings – and it does. But it can also work the other way round.
Our posture is part of a bio-feedback loop.
When our spine is straight and our shoulders down and back (comfortably, not forced) then our lungs have space and we can breathe more freely. Also, our heart centre is open.
When we slump, the opposite is true, and this is telling the body that we are not at our best in some way. It can encourage feelings of tiredness, anxiety and stress.
Think of the way that many of us spend our days: slumped in front of a computer screen, or the TV, or staring at our mobile phone…
How much is this contributing to our stress levels?
This is why it’s so beneficial to take a break, stand up, move around, pay attention to your posture and breath, and if possible, spend some time outdoors in natural light.
So, if you’re in a situation currently where you’re experiencing stress, anxiety, chronic fatigue or dis-ease, then hang in there. You can still make the journey back to health and wellbeing. As Anthony William, the Medical Medium, says:
“It doesn’t matter how long you’ve been sick. You can heal.
Always remember that and never forget it.”
My journey into working in the field of Wellbeing began when I joined an online course in Evolutionary Enlightenment. This caused me to take a hard look at my life – my career, my direction, my purpose – and question whether or not it was really right for me. The answer was No. I was lost, struggling and unhappy.
Searching for something that would resonate for me and that would support my need to grow, I started learning Reiki which, in a roundabout way, led me back to one of my passions: animals. Horses in particular hold a very special place in my heart. I love supporting owners to explore their horse’s physical and emotional needs.
I went on to study Energy Healing, Emotional Freedom Techniques and META-Health because I also love supporting other women who are experiencing similar experiences of stress and overwhelm. I love holding a safe space where they can discover that they have always had choices and the power to make their own decisions.
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