Energetics of Friendship, Sorcery and Envito

Even the people we trust, or believe we *should* be able to trust, both physically and energetically.. may not be in their utmost integrity, literally or energetically.  Do I think my teachers intentionally sent out cords to drain or hurt me?  I can’t imagine some of them sitting down and mapping this out… that’s cold-calculated outright sorcery.  Outright wishing or wanting harm.

Granted, there are times when someone I thought was a friend, had a few too many to drink.. and another side would come out.. and I heard things that I never remotely suspected, opinions about me that completely contradicted *everything* of the sober-relationship.  Unspoken resentments or jealousies(?).. because I am smart, or better educated, or have horses.. who knows from whence it comes– especially since what comes out is their own stuff.. but often it had nothing to do with anything I had DONE… there wasn’t anything I had specifically set in motion from my actions/ choices. I was just being who I am.. and in many instances had even extended huge generosities to the person… But there’s a world of difference between resentment and revenge (?)..

Granted, there were probably a lot of subtle cues and clues that I just wasn’t seeing. A quick expression, a pause, a stiffening of the body…  Had I been more in tune, could I have staved off some of these instances? Possibly.  However, when it comes to my relationships- I am honest.  And that means more than being truthful/  I am who I am- I do not try to be other than that.  I do not try to be more, OR LESS, than I am. Plain and simple. I am a package deal.  And if someone has a resentment, it is their place to bring it to the table.

But there is another level of energetic entanglement that is deeper, more subtle and more sinister.. between honest friendship and outright cold calculated sorcery.

There’s another term, that I think is more applicable than sorcery, or revenge. I was taught, when you’ve exhausted all avenues as a healer: contracts, extractions, soul-loss, destiny-work etc.. you look for envito.  It’s a word that loosely translates as envy… or coveting… and that envy, either in a moment or over time..can work its way into someone’s bubble and set up shop.  Often this type of thing is energetic, and the transgressor is not aware they have done this.  In fact, they may resent the person/victim.. find reasons to find fault with them, –what this is, in fact.. is the energetic envy beginning to play out in the physical plane.

I’ve had a few teachers turn on me, nothing overt- but having me energetically and/ or emotionally off-balance.  Things I couldn’t put a finger on.  I found I was caught between respecting a teacher as being “superior” or more advanced in some way, and wanting to, literally, say F**** you.

So in that regard- I was definitely feeling that energetic transaction.  And I was having a personal, and energetic struggle/ battle between giving it away and saying: hands off!

Now- I had absolutely no idea that any of this was going on energetically.  It wasn’t until much later, when I had MANY MANY cords removed, from several of my former teachers..that I understood the nature and role of cords.  It was like a missing piece fell into place..THAT explains it, sort of thing.

In my case, it was a result of having a higher, stronger, clearer medicine level/ vibration than those of my teachers.  So, there is an inherent distinction between medicine “level” and how trained someone is. There is some sort of intrinsic soul-essence/level… and then there is how much teaching we have mastered.  I suppose it might be somewhat similar to Intelligence.  There are students who apply themselves, and do well.  And there are students who have natural affinities for various areas- at which they excel, without trying or working at it.  It just comes to them, or they grasp it, in the way a fish grasps breathing underwater and swimming- it is the natural element.

Did I respect my teachers? Absolutely! Was I excruciatingly disappointed to learn the truth behind the curtain? Most Certainly.  It was a bit like finding out there is no Santa Claus…

Have I learned from it? Definitely.  From my own experience- I have learned to check and protect my bubble and edges.  Since I KNOW I tend to be trusting- I know the best route for myself is to be vigilant. Like someone who is colour-blind.. they do not *trust* to chance.. Instead, they set up reliable mechanisms by which to assess the things they don’t have the ability to *know* intrinsically.

I have found I have a few less friendships.  But that isn’t necessarily a bad thing.  It means I don’t have to struggle with opportunistic energy- and the friendships I DO have.. are not impacted by those third-party threads.  And that is another side-affect of cords.. it affects more than just the target… all things create ripples…  and energy junkies create discord.. like any junkie, the addict will want to horde their supply.

In the end- the lesson becomes.. we each have a sacred bubble.  It is an intrinsic component of simply BEING, existing! No one should transgress or violate that sanctity. When we create this sort of energetic structural integrity in our bubble, our relationships become more satisfying and fulfilling- without being draining.

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I am an Education Specialist, Health Coach and Author. I work with aspects of the teachings I have learned from Andean shamanic and cosmology, to health, nutrition and education.  Everything is energy. Energy must flow. Like water, when it does not flow, it stagnates and is not healthy. These techniques help your life to flow. I have been initiated into many of the ancient lineages and learned ceremonies, rites of passage and healing techniques.  I have worked as a healer and done workshops and taught some of these aspects – passing the teachings on.

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Dancing in Your Bubble : ancient teaching, modern healing
Natural Support for Alzheimer’s
Getting a Handle on Happy : find and fix causes of stress and depression
The Naturally Smarter Kid : a parent’s guide to helping kids succeed in school and life
Cafe of the Hungry Ghosts : behind the veil of ordinary – a paranormal-ish fiction book

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