Contracts, Agreements and Energetic Beacons

We all make agreements, all the time.  We make agreements with ourselves, the people around us, and the larger world/universe/reality/ god.

As in literature, where there are 3 basic themes, man v self, man v nature, man v man.  So too, we have contracts, or agreements that govern, or rule-create those different sorts of engagements.

Agreements, or contracts, or sometimes, when charged-  I like to refer to as beacons. More on that later.

But as far as the nature of Agreements: even regarding an agreement with others and the Universe,it is sort of still an agreement with ourselves.. about others, or how we interact with others or how others will interact with us (or not interact with us:).

A contract (or agreement) is a truth, belief or dynamic that serves- whether we like it or not- as an organizing pattern or dynamic in our life.

Nature has a way of creating patterns.. habits, dynamics.  So too does energy.  Energy, like water, tends to prefer to follow the paths of least resistance, and also- like water, does not necessarily have an inherent structure of its own.  So, it can be shaped, or molded, or directed.. and acted upon by other things..

Energy has frequency, or vibration, or resonance..

Think of your energy bubble, like jello.  When you’re young, the jello is still liquid.  You have not yet become what you will develop into, energetically- just like your child body shows the potential for several slightly different adult forms.. but has not yet taken/ selected any one particular path/destination.

When we are young, we are still figuring out the world, how it works, how relationships between people work and our role in that world.  Some things we inherit.  Others we are figuring out as we go along.  Some things we learn from watching the world around us, and the people around us: indirectly.  Other things we learn via direct experience.  Don’t put your hand on the stove, it’s hot.  We learn what that means when we burn our hand.

All of these things organise the way we move through our lives.  Some of them are very beneficial- both at the literal and energetic levels.  Sometimes though, we come to insights, or make assertions about the world that are either based on faulty input, or flawed reasoning/input.  For example- growing up in an alcoholic household, where one’s earliest memories are about the smell of alcohol and angry emotions etc.. may learn that 1- it is a cruel and disappointing world, indirectly.  This would be learned from watching how Mom/Dad/whomever process and interact with the world that THEY have created for/around themselves- based on their own wounds and “agreements.”  Maybe they have heard and seen it play out that “everyone is out to get you.” A strong victim energetic pattern that is reinforced.  Also, contracts can tend to group together, in clusters of association… So along with everyone being out to get them.. the person might also have a contract that says they will never amount to anything, or they are a failure.  so, they get laid off, or someone else gets promoted over them.. and more than one contract is being engaged/ triggered.

NOW, the tricky thing about contracts.. and this is where I prefer to use my own term, beacons… is that the term agreement or contract infers something passive.  A beacon, on the other hand.. emits its own energy.. constantly sending out SPAM- or in this case.. that resonance-packet of “contract-information.”… if the energy behind that is strong enough… it can shift the flows of energy around it.  Perhaps the promotion was a toss-up between 2 people.  The energy from that contract can nudge events one way or another.  In this case, it created exactly what it already believed.  The promotion goes to the co-worker. And the added bonus, this repetition strengthens the contract. It serves as the self-fulfilling prophecy.

NOW- I use the term bonus deliberately, as the more something is reinforced- the stronger it becomes.  This is a mixed blessing- as it is a nuisance in someones life- BUT, it brings it closer to our literal attention to be addressed and resolved.

Generally, the thing to do- is to look for the pattern, the commonality.  Very often, many disparate things will trace back to one or two common points of origin.

First, check to see if you are in your best integrity. Are your actions-choices creating any of these things.. Are these things RE-actions.. or are they spontaneously forming around you as a response to a contract? As part of an “integrity-check”.. you might ask, how many times do you walk away from any instance asking- why did I do that? what made me say that?  why didn’t I say/ do.. X.. etc..

Are you simply becoming AWARE of a pattern around you?  In which case, maybe it is just a need to tweak your own boundaries, and change the patterns.  As you do this, you will find less of the undesired pattern, and more of a new, preferable pattern emerging.  Maybe you take your coffee break at a slightly different time, and voila! You begin to connect with a different group in the break-room/coffee shop/deli.

If the pattern around you is less incidental- you may have to do some leg work, and clearing.  Figure out what the organising theme is, and revisit it, rework that contract, literally, metaphorically and energetically.  At which point, those patterns will shift around you without you needing to change your physical patterns and habits. Whatever is tweaking people around you to go one way v. another, will no longer impact choices and actions. From there you will be able to have a clearer view of what is going on, and how you want to proceed in your Life.

 

 

I am an Education Specialist, Health Coach and Author. I work with aspects of the teachings I have learned from Andean shamanic and cosmology, to health, nutrition and education.  Everything is energy. Energy must flow. Like water, when it does not flow, it stagnates and is not healthy. These techniques help your life to flow. I have been initiated into many of the ancient lineages and learned ceremonies, rites of passage and healing techniques.  I have worked as a healer and done workshops and taught some of these aspects – passing the teachings on.

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Dancing in Your Bubble : ancient teaching, modern healing
Natural Support for Alzheimer’s
Getting a Handle on Happy : find and fix causes of stress and depression
The Naturally Smarter Kid : a parent’s guide to helping kids succeed in school and life
Cafe of the Hungry Ghosts : behind the veil of ordinary – a paranormal-ish fiction book

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