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Chaos to Calm: What Are You Looking For?

You can look right into the eyes of a cat or observe their body language and figure out what they’re trying to do or say. (Mine is looking for lunch!)

People are a bit more complicated. We’ve become really good at putting on a brave face, all while looking for…

What? Looking for the right thing to say to make their partner understand them. Looking for the perfect job, more loyal friends, a mate. Looking for answers to their problems or health concerns.

All in an effort to bring joy, happiness and love into their lives.

Now don’t get me wrong, these are all noble pursuits! We can feel joy, happiness and love with a partner that understands us or better health or a job we love.

But if you are constantly looking, you will never find. It’s the Law of Attraction at work: like attracts like. If you are putting emotional energy into “looking,” it tells the universe that you lack “it.” You will receive more lack of “it.”

Today, act as if you own it. Stop looking. Move through your day as if that job is already yours and walk through every door that cracks open for you. Approach your partner as if s/he already fully understands every word you say. Be grateful (out loud if necessary!) for each small step toward your big picture.

Recognize that once your perspective changes, your reality MUST follow.

In other words, everything you need to shift your world is right inside you.

​Has been all along…isn’t that freeing?

Live in love,


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Carrie Beleno is an Intuitive Reiki master/teacher, spiritual leader, inspirational speaker, medium and author.

She received a phone call from an anonymous man from Tibet who told her that she was a “powerful healer” and needed to trust and step fully into that role. Since that call, Carrie has written two books: The Night Yoda Phoned: My Direction From Spirit and Because Yoda Said So: Following Your Intuition.

She also hosts weekly podcast and YouTube episodes entitled, Chaos to Calm: Spiritual Truths That Can Change Your Life.

Sign up for her weekly “Chaos to Calm” Choice guidance here.

It is her mission to help humanity live in love and move from chaos to calm!





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