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Chaos to Calm: About Death…

This begins a five-part series about the topics that motivate my clients to see me, the topics that weigh heaviest on their hearts and prevent them from living life to its fullest. It is my hope that just one nugget of my truth resonates with your soul and brings you comfort…

About death: Of course I was “told” to begin with the most taboo topic, the one that sparks the most anger and passion, but if you have followed how God works in my life, you won’t be the least bit surprised!

And so it begins.

Truth #1: It is time to lift guilt, regret and remorse from the death of another. Your relationship was designed by you both to help you declare who you are and what you love. Sometimes it helps you see what you DON’T love in order to clarify what you do love. If you were supposed to be there at their death, you would have been. If your relationship was supposed to be better, then it would have been. If you were supposed to have “done more,” then you would have been shown what to do. That’s the way our souls work. So however their life and death played out, it was supposed to be that way. Time to lift any guilt or regret surrounding life and death because it serves no purpose.

Truth #2: When you miss someone, you truly “miss” them. Each time you state or feel that you are missing someone, you will continue to miss them. Just because we cannot see their human form right now does not mean that they are not with us in the blink of an eye. It doesn’t mean that they stop sharing our joys and challenges with us. And they WILL continue to give us reassurance of their love from the other side, as long as we want and need it. Problem is, when we declare that we miss them, we miss the opportunities to see their signs and love. From this point forward, thank them for their continued love and support. Thank them for your ability to feel their loving presence. I can’t tell you the number of clients who have shifted this thinking and then hear their loved one’s favorite song, or find a token, or have their words spoken to them by another. The fastest way to reconnect with their pure love energy: stop “missing” them.

Truth #3: My soul, his soul, her soul~ your soul, is not powerful enough to cause the “death” of another soul without its permission. All of our souls are directly linked, and are part of God. They know EVERYTHING! Particularly how we are going to declare who we are and what we love in this lifetime. We are all divinely connected and choreograph this dance on Earth together.
The soul of the human you lost knew exactly what it was doing to declare who they are and what they love, and I can bet that their life and death has helped YOU to fully declare who you are and what you love as well. Honor them and the plan they chose for their life and death.

These truths are not designed to make light of the fact that grief exists and that we dearly miss our human communication with them. But it is my hope that these truths lighten the burden you feel so that you can allow your light to shine upon those who need it most here on Earth.

Please contact me if you need help lifting this burden.
Live in Love,

The second installment of the series will be: Chaos to Calm: About Depression…



Carrie Beleno is an Intuitive Reiki master/teacher, spiritual leader, inspirational speaker, medium and author.

She received a phone call from an anonymous man from Tibet who told her that she was a “powerful healer” and needed to trust and step fully into that role. Since that call, Carrie has written two books: The Night Yoda Phoned: My Direction From Spirit and Because Yoda Said So: Following Your Intuition.

She also hosts weekly podcast and YouTube episodes entitled, Chaos to Calm: Spiritual Truths That Can Change Your Life.

Sign up for her weekly “Chaos to Calm” Choice guidance here.

It is her mission to help humanity live in love and move from chaos to calm!





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